What have I learn from my own experiences? What should I have done different if I were to start my life allover again?
1- I would love my family more. I will let then know I love then, not to take then for granted
2- I would laugh more. The first duty on life is to be happy and to make others happy.
3- I would be a better listener. We are busy with the burden of life tired with the daily routine. We want to forget obligations, We are obsorbed we our own interest We have little time to listen.
4- I would seek to be more honest. I’ve always considered myself honest in the sense that I wouldn’t keep a nickel that didn’t belong to me. I would I knowling tell a lie. I would not purposely misrepresent anything. Yet I know from personal experiences that there is certain type of dihonesty that pretend perfection.
5- I would re-direct my prayers. Often in the pass, i pray for my sons, for my grand children, for my mom, for friends and family in general. Then one day I realize that I most stop praying like that, instead I must redirect my prayers. “God make us fit to live with love and kindness”
6- I would try for more togetherness. If I have it to do over I would spend more time with my family. Do you know what I’m giving my grandson for Christmas one hour every week to do as he wish. So he can remember the time we had together.
7- I would be more encouraging. Probably there is nothing more encouraging than sincere praise and honest complement.
8- I would pay more attentions to the little things. Little things make or break good relationships or shatter the sense of Oneness and love.
9- I would seek to develop feelings of belonging. When a sense of belonging is absent, a felling of loss and loneliness and lack of love pervades.
I would seek to share God more intimately. When I love God more, I love life more. the more I love God, the more intimate I love everyone.